Having uncountable issues in life, a human should not feel helpless whatever the situation is. There are infinite possibilities that maybe we cannot see. So, we need to look more deeply again and again to grab our possibilities. Read on to find out how to change the way you think about life.
->We create the chances in life:
It is we only who create the chances or the possibilities. It happens that our chances are being shortened because of the way of thinking. The way we think, it might be changed or modified. If we think positive, our life would be more peaceful. No matter what is going on with life, no need to overthink about it. We have to live for a single moment. If we waste our present moment thinking about the past that what we didn’t get and what we did, it not only spoils our valuable time also gives us unwanted frustration.
Possibility does not come to us by its own, we need to look for every single of them. Life cannot reach to a dead end, of course there is always a solution for each problem. We have to cross-check every way to do better as nothing is impossible for humans and it has been proven since decays. We are the only one who can make our life beautiful and far better with whatever we have.
->Failure as lesson:
Failure cannot be the strongest part, it can be the meaningful reason to work or try harder. Sometimes, we have many failures in our life, it doesn’t mean that we cannot move on or we are so dumb to be successful. Actually we need to choose the right thing for us.
Sometimes we are forced to choose our life by our parents or others. But the important point is to listen to ourselves always and it must be the first priority. When we listen to our hearts, we can give the best efforts in that particular field. Sometimes it may happen that because of having lack of knowledge or opportunity, a person has to work in some other field he never wanted to. For that kind of situation, we should work on our mentality. If the way of thinking can be changed, anyone can have a good life.
->Thinking with a broad mind:
Let’s start thinking from the downwards, many poor families cannot even think how to manage three times food let alone studies. They cannot afford to send their children in school or buy them many clothes. Only a few examples like these can make our thoughts changed. Those poor families are having very miserable life what they cannot even make it better because of not having enough opportunities.
“See yourself living in abundance and you will attract it”. – Rhonda Byrne
Now talking about us, we got opportunity to study in the school even got the chance to pursue graduation, even some of us get more than that. We are having more than enough clothes and all the necessary things. Instead of being blessed and happy, we get often frustrated and blame our parents too easily. Even some children are not much fortunate like us to have parents and they have nobody to blame. Actually nowadays, we look for excuses to blame others. We are not ready to accept our own faults. But we just need a reason to get depressed.
There are so many brilliant students or talented humans among us. Some of us are having the opportunity to utilize the talent and some of us cannot afford to utilize that. So, when we are blessed to do something better in our life, we should not waste it. The best step would be our positive thinking about life and having no confusion about what to do or what not.
Now talking about students who are studying in abroad, they study hard staying far away from their parents and on the other hand the children who stay with their parents, do not have time to show care and respect for their parents. Exception can never be an example. I’m talking about the majority percentage of humans of this modern age.
->Life of students nowadays:
Let’s analyze the behavior and attitude of this modern humans especially the students. They are arrogant, have no interest to be advised, nothing can beat their ego, no inspiration word can change their mentality, becoming argumentative for everything, no respect for teachers and elders, sometimes misusing the superiority. These are the all major attitudes, the students are showing since many years.
Previously, students used to treat the teachers as like God but the scenario has been reversed. Now teachers are afraid of students because they have no least sense to behave with elders so the teachers could be ashamed before the whole class. That is why, they choose to keep quiet even if those students are not listening to them or disturbing others. The only way to get rid of that kind of situation is by remaining calm and ignoring them.
->Today’s youth life:
So, if it is the actual scenario of youth, we cannot be dependable on them. We have to trigger ourselves to save our lives and our nation as well. If ‘I’ from each family start to change everything into better things, someday very soon we will have a beautiful nation as our lives are very much related with nation. We need to be more practical rather than emotional and also be not harmful to anyone. It is important to think positively with patience, utilizing every chance to create a better future.
if we want to live peacefully and go ahead without having any meaningless trouble, we need to be less argumentative and have the ability to talk wisely to avoid any unwanted problem. When we step smartly, we can handle the situation. We always need to be calm while taking decision. One should have the capability to control anger. Showing respect to others, it never compromises our dignity. It can broaden our heart to treat everyone as human.